Hi James,
As per previous comments, we have to take a very holistic view of the community that this convention is servicing, and whether you like it or not, a large aspect of that is adult artwork. Regretably from your perspective, that means it causes offense, but unfortunately, when it comes down to the grind and we have to make a decision based on how it impacts one individual v's the majority, and the thousands of pounds we can raise for our charity, the decision is very obvious.
Whilst the artwork in the show is going to be censored, the general view point is to not censor people, their interests, or why they are attending a convention - within reason. Obviously we expect people to exercise common sense regarding public signs of affection, and them not waving certain artwork etc. It would be prudent for this person going with their Father, as Lev suggested, to give them forewarning what the event is about, and what to possibly expect. This is exactly what I have to do when I am negotiating with the hotel, as it means there is no margin for surprise once they are hosting ConFuzzled.
I would like to highlight very clearly at this time, since you have raised it again, that the elderly ladies that entered into the auction last year should not even have been in the hotel in the first place, since we had paid for venue exclusivity, and they a) did not become exposed to any adult artwork in the 2 minutes they were present and b) were ejected immediately once it was realised they were there. The hotel were as a result of this incident, in breach of their contract with us. This is why, although I will not disclose further information, we were reimbursed a significant amount of money which was then subsequently used in investing into the new venue. This reiterates the point earlier that we felt no need to censor the general content in the show, because people from outside of the community, apart from bar staff whom were fully briefed in advance, should not have been there in the fist place.
If you genuinely feel you cannot attend the live art auction, you obviously have the opportunity to bid on items you are interested in during the art show. Unfortunately, there is a risk that if the item you are interested in does go to live auction and you do not attend the show, that you miss the piece but unfortunately, we find that on the whole, this process works very fairly for the majority. Hopefully this wont happy to you though and all pieces you are interested in you will place a winning bid.
Kind Regards,
Rizzorat