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Forum Archive CF2008-2011 (Read Only) => Off-Topic Non Furry Discussion => Topic started by: Miles_Valentine on November 05, 2007, 00:18:29
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Alot of people say the furry fandom consists of mainly gay males. So this topic is to test the theory.
For the record, i'm a guy (a cute one too) And i'm gay.
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I am a male who isn't gay. Yes almost as rare as female Furs lol
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There's been extensive polling about this in the past, and current polls over on Furtopia back them up. Proportionately the number of gay/bi furs is much higher than in the general populace, but the Heteros are still in the majority.
Of course you don't have to restrict yourself to straight/gay/bi ... given free choice I'd describe myself as Polisexual :-*
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Latest independent statistics of the furry fandom, as made by the University of California and published in May 2007:
Heterosexual: 32.7%
Bisexual: 37.3%
Homosexual: 25.5%
Asexual/Other: 4.5%
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Lol ohh im sorry!! if im boaring only liking females!
Not showing off like some of you!! hahaha
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lol, its not showing off, just happy there's a word for it :)
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Oh just make your own words up. No one will say anything it's all dacauiiuads! lol (that looks pretty good for button bashing then)
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I don't like making words up, thats something a dacauiiuad would do ...
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Male and not gay. Wouldn't mind meeting furry girl :)
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Male and not gay. Wouldn't mind meeting furry girl :)
Join the club lol
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Meet a regular one and convince her to quit shaving her legs ;)
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Eww.
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That's... slightly if not monumentally terrifying...
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Meet a regular one and convince her to quit shaving her legs ;)
Furry vs Hairy
I guess
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I am male, hetero, with girlfriend. The exception, I would think, hehe.
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I'm in the "Other" category.
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Dear Souls,
it does not really matter how one is orientated as long as you're happy
and the love or lust is there, one should celebrate ones sexuality after
all we've only got one life, so we all should enjoy it while we are here
on this earth. :), i'm not sure how i'm orientated, as i've never had
a girlfriend or boyfriend, so really i just don't know.
yours in light always
feera fox
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Eww.
hehe. :P
I'm male and 100% gay.
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GAY!!! of course i'm gay...well maybe not 100% 'coz sadly i do get attracted to the odd female, more like 98% gay, 2% bi
however i shall tell the this for free, i am in no way a breeder
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... 'coz sadly i do get attracted to the odd female ...
You know thats not a bad thing, right?
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You know thats not a bad thing, right?
That's a matter of opinion really. I can find both men and women attractive, whereas I know people who find the idea of a different sexuality to their own scary, wrong or even sickening (yeah, I have/had a wide spectrum of friends).
Personally, I think sexuality doesn't change who you find attractive. I know straight guys who find certain men attractive, I know gay guys that find some women attractive. A friend at my old works once put it really bluntly by saying something along the lines of (and more vulgar than) this: "Being gay doesn't mean you don't like women, it just means you wouldn't have sex with them".
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*giggles*
Well I'm just your stereotypical gay foxiefox. Enough said :P
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... 'coz sadly i do get attracted to the odd female ...
You know thats not a bad thing, right?
i didnt really mean it was a bad thing that i get attracted to womenz, i just meant the TYPE of womenz that attract me are the ones i'd really rather try and stay away from.... every girl that has ever shown an intrewst in me has meerly done it to take the piss so i've kinda lost faith, that doesnt mean i wouldnt try to go out with a girl if she was nice enough just that id be aprehensive
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... 'coz sadly i do get attracted to the odd female ...
You know thats not a bad thing, right?
I didnt really mean it was a bad thing that i get attracted to womenz, i just meant the TYPE of womenz that attract me are the ones i'd really rather try and stay away from.... every girl that has ever shown an intrewst in me has meerly done it to take the piss so i've kinda lost faith, that doesnt mean i wouldnt try to go out with a girl if she was nice enough just that id be aprehensive
Ah. But, you can get almost whatever girl you want.
I won't say i know a secure way to get it, but... I've done as good as i can to not show ppl around here that I'm gay. (I'll propaberly just be myself on confuzzled. :P )
And, I've experienced that most girls like guys who give them the right looks, the right smiles and guys who are kind. And i'm way too kind of nature. :P
I've been trying to give out signals that other gay people can see, but not the straight ones. Aaaand i just ended up getting lots of girls efter me. :S
I don't want that.
The good thing is that it makes ppl think that I'm not gay, but then again, i don't make the gay guys interested in me.
The point is. If you act the right way, you will get the right girls after you.
I even managed to get 3 Irish girls after me once. O.O And they had the body every straight guy would kill to get.
But, if you want to get the right guy, then i dunno.
I don't like the situation I've put myself in. Concidering, i have no interest whatsoever in girls, but i get them after me. And i can't figure out the right way to charm a guy.
I guess the best thing i can do is to be myself and see what happens.
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yeah.... I'm just about the biggest faggot in the fandom I reckon ;)
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yeah.... I'm just about the biggest faggot in the fandom I reckon ;)
You're just fabulous :P
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yeah.... I'm just about the biggest faggot in the fandom I reckon ;)
awww. :3
It's gonna be fun to meet you all next year. Can't wait for it.
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yeah.... I'm just about the biggest faggot in the fandom I reckon ;)
Not unless you've put on a whole bunch of weight, the Americans can beat us hands-down at being big :P
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hehe well i'm looking forward to meeting you all at the con
i'll show y'all just how gay i can be ;) :P only if you want me to of course
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I'm so extremely straight. I mean, I have piank socks, a pink DS, a pink collar, my youtube page is pink, my name in my conbadge is so pretty in pink. ANd I giggle a lot and am very bouncy and huggable.
Oh yeah I'm gay
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hehe.
This is gonna be fun. :3
I wonder how gay i will be. I don't have any pink stuff, and I'm not much femme IRL.
But, lots of things can change before summer. :P
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Pink != Gay :P
(says the Bi preferring guys person with pink stuff all over the inside of his car ;D)
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I apologise in advance for going slightly off topic here, but I've got a question: If "pink = gay" then "camouflage = ?". I ask because I don't own anything pink, but my wardrobe is made of primarily military gear and I think the answer to this might be the thing that helps me find out more about myself hehe ;)
[Edited for spelling. Me fail Inglish? Unpossible!]
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hmn... well I'd say that is probably neutral. it's slightly masculine because of the whole idea of the army and fighting and stuff but I'd be tempted to say it has bits of feminine too, what with the *adopts a high pitched, "girly" voice* "ooh lets all hide and avoid having to do anything"
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If "pink = gay" then ...
Note I marked != (as in not equals) ;)
It could be argued that cammo is terribly butch, and therefore also gay ... I have some desert cammo trousers that I love, they look nice (not into the green and snow gear though).
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dear souls,
yes we talk about Furries and sexuality, but i would say "Furries and sexuality and love" for
without some love at least, at least for me, sexuality may not have much energy, yes it may
work from a body point of view, but if you are looking for something more, get to know the
person one does like, and understand them after all a relationship furry or otherwise lasts
the longest, if built on a firm foundation, yes this might sound old-fashioned, but oh well.
i'm going to take this oppertunity to wish you all a very happy festive season :)
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after all a relationship furry or otherwise lasts the longest if built on a firm foundation
i agree, I would never go out with someone based on looks alone. personality is VITAL to any relationship.
Take my own for example, I knew I loved my Andrew months before i ever knew what he looked like
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you are a good, honest true soul some just go on, dare i say it lust alone,
this i feel is never going to work, you have the right idea.
you said: personality is VITAL to any relationship.
I really do agree, with you, and i wish you all the best with your
andrew and may your relationship shine for you both.
have a wonderful festive season, and blessings to you both.
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I'd agree with that, though some physical attraction is also necessary - when sex is fine its only a small part of a relationship, but when its not good it becomes a major problem (unless you're both happy without it, which is an unusual but great way to live).
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To me, i prefere personality before body.
I alredy have feelings for someone, even tho he's body isn't the prettiest, i think i might love him.
But, sadly he said he just want to stay as friends. So, all i could do was to say yes.
I haven't given up yet, and hope he might start to love me one day aswell. But, i can't just site here waiting for him forever. That would just make live harder for me, and it might affect him. So, I'm still looking for the right one. :3
One day, i might meet someone and just *bam* fall in love. U never know. ^^
So, i would say:
personality 90%
body 10%
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personality 90%
body 10%
That sounds about right to me :) Good luck in finding that special someone ;)
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heh, cant help but think we went off the subject XD not that it matters :)
Going back to the original discussion, im a guy and im bi ^^ but i suppose i lean towards guys more ;)
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I'm a guy and i think i'm gay :3
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I apologise in advance for going slightly off topic here, but I've got a question: If "pink = gay" then "camouflage = ?". I ask because I don't own anything pink, but my wardrobe is made of primarily military gear and I think the answer to this might be the thing that helps me find out more about myself hehe ;)
I'd say that that just means your uber dominant, the exact opposite of me lol :P
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I'm a guy and i think i'm gay :3
Best way to tell is if your a fox, your gay :P It's a well known fact that all foxes are gay :P *giggles*
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I'm a snowleopard u_u
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Awww, those are cute ^.^
*snuggles tightly*
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I'm a guy and i think i'm gay :3
Best way to tell is if your a fox, your gay :P It's a well known fact that all foxes are gay :P *giggles*
what about Vixens?
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Awww, those are cute ^.^
*snuggles tightly*
yes, that's our main feature xD
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I'm a guy and i think i'm gay :3
Best way to tell is if your a fox, your gay :P It's a well known fact that all foxes are gay :P *giggles*
what about Vixens?
Ok maybe not all foxes, unless all vixens like other vixens :P
Don't mind me, I'm just being silly :P
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I'm a guy and i think i'm gay :3
Best way to tell is if your a fox, your gay :P It's a well known fact that all foxes are gay :P *giggles*
what about Vixens?
Ok maybe not all foxes, unless all vixens like other vixens :P
Don't mind me, I'm just being silly :P
I like both <<;
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Nothing wrong with that, you get the best of both worlds ;) hehehe
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Male Bi.
And I think you got some thing about the foxes ;)
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heehee ^^
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Male bi, and happily spoken for. I has dogzorz! *hugs Loupgaros*
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Male Bi Single, not especially looking but hoping to maybe bump into that special someone.
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Once again this is turning into a dating site type topic :P
Naughty furries :P
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Once again this is turning into a dating site type topic :P
Naughty furries :P
come oo. that was inevitable for this thread XD
and regarding your 'fox = gay'... that must be why i swing for the guys more ^^ heehee
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*giggles*
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Hi, I'm straight, not all cheetah are the same :P
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Female....lesbian....furry....?
ERROR -BZZT- DOES NOT COMPUTE -BZZT-
Heh heh, want a minority? Bi male, not single, otter, Christian furry.
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both seem minor to me XD heehee
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Haha *laughs*
How about then... hmm...
Israeli Furry
Enough said ^^
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Female and straight.
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Asexual Christian Female Non-Furry in a Furry World.
DID I WIN!? :D
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I am female and im a lesbian...
Bi male, not single, otter, Christian furry.
Asexual Christian Female Non-Furry in a Furry World.
My brain hurts! I think it may have to come out
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My brain hurts! I think it may have to come out
Good thing I brought my Lucky No-Pain Brain Extractor with me! *the taped-on sticker reading "No-Pain" falls off* Uh....
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Lol, I'll hold him down for ya :P
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Let me just join this thread by saying that I'm only as gay as my boyfriend is.
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I am female and im a lesbian...
Bi male, not single, otter, Christian furry.
Asexual Christian Female Non-Furry in a Furry World.
My brain hurts! I think it may have to come out
Glasses, check. Moustashe *sticks one on* check, hankerchief *puts it on her head* check...
IM GOIN TO OPERATE!
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Glasses, check. Moustashe *sticks one on* check, hankerchief *puts it on her head* check...
IM GOIN TO OPERATE!
Move along, people, this thread is officially won :P
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Asexual Christian Female Non-Furry in a Furry World.
DID I WIN!? :D
I think you just won :D
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Asexual Christian Female Non-Furry in a Furry World.
DID I WIN!? :D
I think you just won :D
nuu, I won thanks to watching Monty Python too many times T_T
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nuu, I won thanks to watching Monty Python too many times T_T
I think I may have to table a motion to repeal your prize for thinking you can watch Monty Python too much. That is simply not the case, and I put it to my right honourable friend that... wait, sorry... I appear to have slipped into politician mode. That'll teach me to have BBC Parliament on in the background for most of the day...
Edit: Broke the Quote tag... that'll teach me to be postings at this ungodly hour
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nuu, I won thanks to watching Monty Python too many times T_T
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I think I may have to table a motion to repeal your prize for thinking you can watch Monty Python too much. That is simply not the case, and I put it to my right honourable friend that... wait, sorry... I appear to have slipped into politician mode. That'll teach me to have BBC Parliament on in the background for most of the day...
Dont worry, we can also blame the post in my quote thing and my slip-up on monty python on the politicians
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nuu, I won thanks to watching Monty Python too many times T_T
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I think I may have to table a motion to repeal your prize for thinking you can watch Monty Python too much. That is simply not the case, and I put it to my right honourable friend that... wait, sorry... I appear to have slipped into politician mode. That'll teach me to have BBC Parliament on in the background for most of the day...
Dont worry, we can also blame the post in my quote thing and my slip-up on monty python on the politicians
I don't know what you mean... I see no slip up... *shifty eyes*
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I'm probably the biggest gay on these forums :P *pokes his large tummy* Yep, definately the largest :P
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I'm probably the biggest gay on these forums :P *pokes his large tummy* Yep, definately the largest :P
Nothing wrong with that ^^
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I am female and im a lesbian...
and you straight guys think your in the minority in the fandom.. pfft
I thought that most of us that keep our sexuality to ourselves were the minority.
Or at least I am keeping it to myself now, considering personal events of the past year or so for me.
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Me I'm as of yet un decided on my sexuality ( u cud say i'm Exploring) ;)
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I'm a guy and i think i'm gay :3
Best way to tell is if your a fox, your gay :P It's a well known fact that all foxes are gay :P *giggles*
What if you undecided??
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Bi here... If I like you, I like you... I don't judge people by what undercarriage they have. :)
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Bi here... If I like you, I like you... I don't judge people by what undercarriage they have. :)
heheheh, well said ^^ heehee
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Best way to tell is if your a fox, your gay :P It's a well known fact that all foxes are gay :P *giggles*
If I was gay then how come then that I had a girlfriend for over a year? and this was when I was still very much a fox character.
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Like alex said it could really be not much of anyones buisness lol. Do you go up to people in the street and ask them or tell them? corse ya dont (no you dont!) its just another things most furs do to get in on a crowd or more likely get their tail away.
<hello im joe average-fur im gay your gay. We have so much in common lest be best friends>
Not that theres anything wrong with making friends quickly or anything but sexuality is something that might be discussed after becomming better friends and certainly isnt a good opening line to a new person ;)
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Agreed... besides, you can usually work out which way they're inclined... Get to know 'em, then try a few test snugs... if hugs don't seem to be an inssue, maybe it'll progress. Its about reading body language.
BTW, its not going to happen if they jump up and knock you out... They're -not- playfighting, trust me! ;D
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me i'm just undecided, as to my sexuality, i'm just a bit weird with my ideas, i think as
long one is happy whatever your sexuality, that's great, go for it enjoy life, and be happy. :)
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Male and gay.
More info in my post here (http://forum.confuzzled.org.uk/index.php?topic=33.new#new)
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me i'm 36 this year and i'm still rather innocent, yes i know this might cause
a few ears to prick up RE: Quote from: Wolfie Fox on January 09, 2008, 17:53:34
not all i think, myself i'm just me and proud to be feera.
re: sexuality furry or otherwise, unless there is love or good feelings in the heart, i
personally feel without these sex itself would be pointless, maybe i'm old fashioned
but that's just me.
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I personally regard myself as an asexual. Something which, to me, is much more difficult than being homo or bisexual. Ever since I was around 13, I realised I just didn't feel the way towards other people, of either gender, that other people my age were beginning to feel. I spend years thinking it was a phase, but when you hit 19 and 20 and still feel the same- you know it isn't. I've never found another person physically or sexually attractive, and the idea of sex itself... no thanks. When people go round with the "Phwoar, nice arse", or "I'd do her", I just don't get it at all. I've had lads mags shoved in my face- but the fact is, I don't find topless women appealing at all. I get no end of judgement and flak for how I feel (and that's if people even believe me in the first place), and I hate it. Why can't people just be accepting and understanding that people feel this way- why do they feel the need to mock, or try and convince me I don't feel this way? It's not as if I chose it.
Funnily enough though, there are some cartoon animal characters I consider attractive- though I still don't consider it sexual.
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Well as far as I know I'm a straight male but I believe there is fluidity in such things, the lines are blurred and things change. After all you don't choose who you love.
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as long as you love the person with all your heart, then any relationship
should work rather well as for the sexuality side, as long as the realtionship
is not just based solely on sex, things should go swimmingley/really well
i know you don't choose who you love, but that's life. :)
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I'm ftm transgendered and bi/pansexual : P
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I'm ftm transgendered and bi/pansexual : P
mtf Transgendered and Bi :p lol
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been reading this thread. some intresting comments,
i would say although ive had a limited intrest in girls, i HAVE HAD FEELINGS TOWARDS guys, so i suppose im gay, this has never gone any further than looking at the guy. i never chased after any one or been to a gay bar as suchj. on saying that i have no problems with gays , i respect them.
i dont know why i really come out know, its somthimng ive thought about but would have never posted about it or talked about it.
AND ITS NOT WHY I JOINED THIS FORUM. It WOULD BE nice if i could meet somone, but that is not what is important to me right know..
just having fun,
i hope you all respect me for what ive posted here, kind reguards :) :)
could the forum admins/mods consider maybe changing the warning message to a different color. or message, what about us newbies who have just joined. we might be put off from posting in the fear that well get in to trouble, like i said i hope you respect me,
THIS IS IMPORTANT, SOME OF YOU IVE LEFT MESSAGES WITH, THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS SUBJECT , BUT JUST CHATTING OK. IM NOT CGASING AFTERE ANYONE, THAT IS NOT WHAT IM ABOUT, Thanx, huskey the RABBIT WOLF1. he he he
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reading this i say sexuality is only in my view a very small part of the fandom, pun not intended
there's art, fursuiting, inner spiritual dimensions should one wish to take it in that direction, sewing
yes, huggles, just to make one go ahhh, my feelings about sex in the fandom and non-furry world.
is get to know the person first, for the best relationships are founded, on trust honor and respecting.
the other person.
to just jump in the sack with somebody willy nilly, is in my opinion shorted lived and sometimes
destructive, to both parties involved. love i feel should be guiding feeling not lust, just be happy
and have great lives, peace to all
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ive read this thread in full. alot of fun. you aint afraid to talk about ya sexuality are you. the bit that made me giggle was .NAUGHTY FURRIES;.
HE HE, I CANT WAIT TO0 MEET YOU GUYS AT SOME POINT.
I FEEL A LOT HAPPIER SINCE YESTERDAY . have fun you VERY naught furries,
hee hee hee hee.
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hehe I dont come under this at all but I would like to see the result xD
I'm a female furry and lesbian X3
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I'm a straight guy, had a few relationships with women.
I'm not in anyway against gays/lesbians, you are what you are, two of my cousins are (nicest people i know), rest of family disowned them when the were 'found out', i'm probably the only one thats talks to them in the family now.
been to a few gay bars, doesnt bother me at all, as i reckon they're nicer than normal pubs.
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i agree . a club in the midlands called rainbows...really freindly atmosphere. at the end of the day there is nothing wrong with being gay, as long as you dont bother anyone else , then there should be no problem.
to be honest to disown your own family is wrong and you should be able to turn to those closest to you in time of need. again also you actually find gay or lesbian people really freindly as well
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just had a thought while reading through this thread again.
i only sleep with women, so does that make me a lesbian?.
and it makes it more of a query as my girlfriend is bisexual and has a girlfriend while she see's me (doesnt bother me what-so-ever, makes for some interesting conversations.).
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this may seem rather sad,
but i find anubis very sexy,,,,, !
he he
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dont worry, i have a thing for cat/fox girls, have done since i can remember.
had my GF dress up with a tail and ears a couple times just to bring the fantasy to life.
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might get in to trouble for sayin this....?
i kinda like PAWS AND HUSKIE TAILS....
thats all im sayin......he he he